It’s important to remember that, although it may be hard sometimes, you don’t have to do anything that you don’t want to do. And no one has the right to force you into doing things that make you uncomfortable, or put you in danger.
It can be really difficult for children and young people to avoid being recruited or affected by gang activity, especially if it’s in your neighbourhood. Being in a gang isn’t a crime in itself, but it can put you at much greater risk of becoming a victim of crime, or an offender.
If your group of friends starts to get involved with gang activity, or any other activities you’re uncomfortable with, think seriously about getting out. It’s hard to leave behind the people you know, but there are lots of other people out there for you to make friends with, and lots of other activities you can get involved with that could be a lot safer. The most important thing is to keep yourself safe.
If you’re worried because someone is trying to make you join a gang or become involved in activities that you’re not comfortable with, you need to talk to an adult you can trust – such as a parent or family member, teacher, youth worker or support worker – about what’s happening and how you feel about it. They will be able to help you.